Happy Interdependence Day!
Posted by Mimi Meredith at Friday, April 1st, 2011 9:53 am
My family has been watching the HBO series John Adams on DVD. It seemed quite fitting that last night, on the eve of the Fourth of July, we were watching the episode regarding the development of the Declaration of Independence. In remembering those months in 1776, there is more to be gained than just a refresher on the principles that led to the country’s creation. While casting a new mold for a free and independent country, the value of civility and interdependence was also revealed. Think how many different perspectives were gathered in the Second Continental Congress in Philadelphia—certainly as many as the 56 participants. And think of the consensus building required to fully and fairly represent the 13 colonies from which they were appointed, much less to unanimously call for a new and independent union.
Among those men, there was great argument, oratory and tireless debate, but there was also an abiding respect and decorum that allowed them to honor one another’s perspectives. I think there is a great lesson there. Even in the first lines of the Declaration of Independence, we sense a tone of civility.
…a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes which impel them to the separation.
Notice that opinions is in the plural. Not only were they expressing the variety of motivations reflected in the hearts of many who yearned for independence, but the document offered a unified expression of individual thought and opinion regarding cause. Can you imagine today our Congress being able to draft a singular representation of the concerns and desires of all its members? Perhaps someday, when we return to the practices that supported the ideals of the Second Continental Congress, it will be possible. The thing we must remember is that in the quest for independence, our founding fathers modeled the best practices of interdependence. An understanding that everyone’s perspective must be considered thoughtfully and a cooperative spirit nurtured to lead them to their auspicious goals.
Civility isn’t about the manners with which we treat one another, it is the manner in which we treat one another. Understanding the value of differing perspectives and letting go of political prowess long enough to recognize the strength of solidarity and common concern. Honoring others and behaving honorably. Those are the civil terms to which I would like to see us return individually and collectively.
So today, let’s celebrate our interdependence and the many perspectives and diverse people that make our workplaces, our communities and this country truly great.
I’ll leave you with these amazing words today…
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by the Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
Pursue goodness; happiness will follow!